Dating a seperated man with adult children
Offra has lectured extensively to various groups, conducted support groups for several organizations, and has been writing a weekly column "Relationship Matters" for the Santa Cruz Sentinel since 2001.
In general, a good guideline is about a six-month wait from the time you separate from your spouse to the time you start to date, although dating will often occur sooner.
Their son lost custody, and they have not seen the two grandchildren from that marriage for a decade.
At first, says Waller, "You're on an emotional wringer.
Fred and Cheryl Waller of Rialto, Calif., have seen two very different sides to a child's divorce.
When one son divorced amicably, the Wallers remained in touch with their ex-daughter-in-law and grandson.