Christian dating friend zone
I know you’re probably thinking, “No, the girl I like is much smarter than that..” But if she actually did choose this jerk/idiot/loser over you, then she’s not right? ” I constantly tell girls to stop pining over these guys who don’t see their worth in Christ. Guys, you are loveable, you are enough, you are courageous, you are amazing! They’re baffled when they act sensitive, polite and nice when they first meet a woman, then get slam-dunked into her “friend zone” — that no-man’s land where women tell you their problems and cry on your shoulder but won’t even consider dating you.The “friend zone” is the place where boys go to feel sorry for themselves, stroke their bruised egos, and make every girl who rejects them into an evil spawn of satan. Here are some of my thoughts on this immature, selfish, ungodly mindset. It is really her way of showing that she really does care about you, appreciates and respects you as a person, and values your friendship. Just because someone rejects you, does not only mean that you are not unloveable, but it also means that THEY are not evil, an idiot, or oblivious to how you feel. [For whatever reason that may be.] See, you, as a guy, get to pick and choose who it is you want to pursue.Look, I understand that you are fantastic and clearly should be on the “world’s most eligible bachelors” list, but the fact is that not everyone is going to fall in love with you like I have. Girls, if they are doing it right and not chasing the men all over creation, don’t have that option.
But the best things in life will often come with a season of waiting.
But they just make us seem desperate, and they are annoying.
They also send a subtle, very not-nice-guy message to that woman …
Talking behind that girl’s back and making her seem like a bad person. It is absolutely impossible and unrealistic to think that they will.
We aren’t going to get the date every time, even if we are the nicest, most-Catholic guy on the planet. Too often we think that by sending 672 text messages, flowers, and countless phone calls and whiny conversations will change her mind.